As I had my morning coffee, the “Dear Abby” column caught my eye. A reader wrote in with a dating dilemma and ended her letter with that often-heard stereotype that “Women use sex to get love, and men use love to get sex.” This is a great summation of the…

He wants to go boating, she gets seasick and wants to sit on the beach, a classic struggle of Land vs. Sea.. Sea sickness or sand flies- can this relationship be saved? Is there a Third Option?